Love, Thoughtfulness & Timeless Romance

Love, Thoughtfulness & Timeless Romance

Why the Best Proposals Aren’t About the Date

Every February, love feels louder. Restaurants fill, roses double in price, and couples everywhere feel the pressure to make Valentine’s Day the moment. But after more than a decade of planning proposals, I’ve learnt something important: the most unforgettable proposals aren’t defined by the calendar, but by the thought behind them.

Valentine’s Day can be magical, of course. There’s something undeniably romantic about the city glowing with love, candlelight flickering against winter skies, and the excitement of a date already filled with meaning. But what truly makes a proposal special is how personal it feels. The best moments are never rushed, never copied, and never chosen just because “it’s the right day”.

Some of the most emotional proposals we create happen quietly. A private rooftop with a historic London view. A beautifully styled dining room where the world fades away. A surprise moment where one partner believes they’re heading to a birthday or a simple drink, only to walk into something carefully designed just for them. These are the moments that linger long after the flowers have faded.

We often remind our clients that romance doesn’t need to shout. It can be elegant, intimate and deeply considered. A proposal should reflect your story whether that’s your first trip together, a shared love of travel, a meaningful view, or simply the desire to be present with one another, uninterrupted.

This is why we encourage couples not to panic if Valentine’s Day feels too soon, too busy or too overwhelming. Love isn’t limited to one weekend in February. Some of our most beautiful proposals take place in early spring, when the city feels fresh again, or on a quiet weekday when venues are calmer and moments feel even more private. Romance thrives when there’s space to breathe.

That said, if Valentine’s Day does feel right, there are ways to approach it with intention rather than pressure. Choosing privacy over crowds, quality over quantity, and experience over extravagance can transform the day into something truly meaningful. It’s not about doing more – it’s about doing what feels right for the two of you.

At The One Romance, our role is to guide you through that process. To listen, to suggest, and to quietly take care of every detail so that when the moment arrives, all you need to do is be present. Whether your proposal happens on Valentine’s Day, a rainy Tuesday in March, or a golden summer evening overlooking London, what matters most is that it feels authentic, thoughtful and full of love.

Because the most romantic proposals don’t follow trends.

They tell a story which is yours.

With heartfelt thanks, as always, to my incredible team who help bring these moments to life and create memories that last forever.

To my wonderful stylists Jo, Clare, Fairy, Erwin and Iva and to the talented photographers and videographers who so beautifully capture each story: Paul (@pgracephoto), Lina & Tom (@linaandtom), Gemma Chase, Black Magic Creations (@black_magic_creations) and Alistair Jones (alistair_jones_photography).

I’m endlessly grateful to work alongside such creative and trusted partners.